These posts are a collection of new and old. My original blog Trials & Triumphs, was launched in February of 2015 as an outlet for a wide range of feelings, thoughts, struggles, and successes. I hope you are encouraged!
The Gospel Makes Breakfast
Peter expected a reckoning. He got breakfast instead. A look at Peter's return to Jesus after the denial, and a God who forgives the failure and restores the calling.
The Gospel Asks
Jesus didn't want the short answer. He wanted the real one. A look at Bartimaeus, the question no one else was asking sincerely, and a gospel that engages what you actually desire.
Compassion: Fatigue or Formation?
I hate the news. All of it. And I used to think that made me compassion fatigued. What if compassion fatigue isn't the problem? What if it’s a formation problem? We don't drift into Christlike compassion. We're formed into it, shaped by what we see, sustained by prayer, proven by how we move toward the vulnerable.
God Doesn’t Want Your Jam
How you see God determines what you do with everything he's given you. And most of us have been offering him something other than what he actually wants.
Why We Hate to Need
Do you struggle to ask for help? I certainly do. When my kids got a play-set for their birthday, I let it sit in boxes in my garage for months instead of asking for help. I told myself I'd get to it. I told myself I'd figure it out. But what I was really telling myself was that needing help was something to be avoided.
BELONG: why fitting in isn’t enough
We spend years learning how to fit in. We learn to read the room, adjust, and perform, becoming versions of ourselves that feel more acceptable. But fitting in and belonging are not the same thing. We don’t just want to fit in. We want to belong.
LOVED: why acceptance isn’t enough
We don’t just want to be seen. We don’t just want to be known. We want to be loved. Because beneath our desire for attention, understanding, and acceptance is something even deeper: the longing to be fully seen, fully known, and still chosen.
KNOWN: why being understood isn’t enough
There’s a difference between someone understanding the words you’re sating and someone understanding you. And even when people “get” parts of us, something can still feel missing.
Because deep down, we don’t just want to be understood. We want to be known.
SEEN: why attention isn’t enough
We spend a lot of time trying to be noticed. And for a moment, it feels like it’s working. But it doesn’t last.
Because being noticed isn’t the same as being seen.
What Your Heart Is Really Looking For
We spend a lot of time and energy trying to meet the needs of our hearts. And for a moment, it feels like it’s working. But it doesn’t last. As quickly as they come, they fade, and we find ourselves going back for more.